• Encourage parents to cheer for all players. But be sure
parents know the difference between cheering and the
impassioned urging that sometimes takes place. Parents who
try to instill the "will to win" by screaming at the
miniature gladiators only make the kids tense and confused
about the goals of the sport.
• Discourage parents from coaching from the sidelines.
Coaching is not their job and, again confuses the players.
• Point out that refs, specially young ones, are doing a
difficult and thankless job, are allowed to make mistakes
and deserve their support.
• Point out, too, that criticism of the ref often leads to
frustration and reprisal against the protesting team.
If there is to be any discussions with the officials, it's
the coach's responsibility - never the fans', parents' or
captain's.
• Legitimate grievances will be better received if a team
doesn't get a reputation as "complainers".
• Never allow a spectator or coach to abuse or malign a
player, referee or other coach. EVER.